I have not yet worn a topper and I am quite frightened of the experience. But I have come to the stage in my hair loss journey where it is becoming more embarrassing to show everyone how bald I am than to just wear something to cover it up. I have read where some women compare it to putting on makeup or wearing a new article of clothing or jewelry, and I am trying very hard to liken it to that. I am single, and the thought of dating and the timing as to "when" you tell someone that your hair is not "your real" hair, is terrifying! But I would love to win an Amber topper with bangs!!!! That would be awesome and I would love to write reviews about how my journey is going! Thank you!